My husband just got orders to go to Fort Hood, Texas. I am not looking forward to this move. Weíve been here for three years and Iím just now, finally, settled in. I hated Fort Bragg when I first got here but now Iím meeting people and have friends here. I donít want to move and my husband has the opportunity to decline the new position Ö but he wonít. I donít understand why he is making such a big decision without talking about it with me. I hate the fact that he wonít even consider my opinion.

Fretting PCS Dear Fretting,

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